In a shocking case of domestic violence, 24-year-old Neilyann Ysam tragically lost her life on July 19, 2025, in Portland, Oregon. The incident occurred while four young children were inside the home, and it was a 4-year-old child who alerted authorities about the attack on her mother. This devastating event has once again highlighted the urgent need for stronger protections for domestic violence victims.
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What Happened to Neilyann Ysam?
According to reports, 28-year-old Matthew Joseph, Ysam’s partner, is accused of killing her during a violent confrontation. The distress call came from Ysam’s 4-year-old daughter, who informed the authorities about the situation.
When police arrived at the scene, they found Neilyann Ysam deceased, while thankfully, the children were unharmed. Joseph fled but was later arrested in Vancouver, Washington, on the same day. He now faces charges of second-degree murder and first-degree theft. Despite the serious accusations, Joseph has pleaded not guilty.
Who Was Neilyann Ysam?
Neilyann Ysam was a 24-year-old mother of four, described by family and friends as a loving and protective parent. She had been trying to escape an abusive relationship and had even sought shelter at her aunt’s home to protect herself and her children from the violence she endured.
Her tragic death serves as a powerful reminder of the dangers faced by domestic violence victims and the urgent need for stronger support systems to protect those at risk.
History of Abuse: A Troubled Relationship
Ysam’s relationship with Joseph had a long history of abuse and legal troubles:
- In 2019, Joseph was convicted of assault following an incident during Ysam’s pregnancy.
- In 2020, he violated a protective order issued to keep him away from her.
Despite these legal measures, the cycle of violence continued, ultimately leading to this heartbreaking tragedy.
Events on the Day of the Incident
On the day of the murder, Joseph himself called 911, claiming he had stabbed someone he “loved” and expressing uncertainty about her condition. Police arrived to find Ysam dead and five children in the home, including their shared children.
Community and Social Media Reactions
The death of Neilyann Ysam has shaken the Portland community. Advocates, friends, and community members have taken to social media, expressing condolences and demanding greater awareness about domestic violence. Many have called for better resources, shelters, and intervention programs to prevent similar tragedies in the future.
What Happens Next? Legal Proceedings and Investigation
The Portland Police Department continues its investigation. Joseph is currently facing serious charges, and upcoming court proceedings will determine the next steps in the case.
Resources for Domestic Violence Victims
If you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship, help is available:
- National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233
- Available 24/7, confidential, and free
You are not alone. Support and resources exist to help you stay safe and rebuild your life.
Conclusion: A Call to Action
The tragic death of Neilyann Ysam is a stark reminder of the devastating consequences of domestic violence. It is a call to raise awareness, strengthen protection systems, and support victims before it’s too late.
Let us come together as a society to end domestic violence and ensure no one suffers in silence.